A really good friend of mine got divorced a couple of months ago. She was in a marriage for two years, and in a relationship for 8 years. Almost 10 years she spends with this man.
Everything was great, until a month after weeding. He started to behave strangely. She wanted to speak to him, but he refused. He blamed her for everything, almost every day. So she decided to move from (his) apartment. He was mad. Long story short, he finds a mistress at his job but hi didn’t want to admit, to look at his wife eyes and tell her the truth.
She is happily divorced now. She is alone, but she doesn’t have a problem with that.
She is 35 years old single girl, and happier now than when she was married.
Why? Because she knows one truth. No one can make you happy if you are not happy within. She knows her worth and she respects herself. She is open to a new relationship, but she is also fine to be on her own. If she never meets Mr. Right, she will be happy too.
Never put the power in his hands. Power is inside of you. The power to have self-confidence, to feel good about your body, to feel good about yourself. You can be happy without a man. You are enough! Nobody can make you happy but you!
Look at the mirror? What do you see? I see a unique, beautiful woman, with all strengths and weaknesses. I see a woman who respects herself enough to walk away from a man who doesn’t deserves her. I see a woman who deserves a great man and a beautiful relationship. I see Female Fatal.
Be grateful for all the great guys who were part of your life (or still are). They all teach you something new. And the greatest things you should learn from them is how to be happy with yourself. When you learn that, Mr. Right will be there, to be happy with you. To walk with you and to grow with you together.
Don’t worry. Everything happens for a reason.
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