2. Turning off the lights – Guys are usually visual “creatures“, so turning the lights of, can turn them off too. Even if you think you are too fat, or you don’t like some part of your body, or you’re shy, just KEEP THE LIGHTS ON!!! OK, this doesn’t mean to put shinny disco ball in your room, but keep some source of light, no matter is it soft light, or candles, or something else, just don’t close yourself in the dark chamber! Trust me, guys already know how you look like even before you take your clothes of, so he has already accepted the way you look! And he likes it !!!