I have to share with you what I’ve heard couple of days ago from two very good friends of mine – I won’t say or use their names because I don’t want to make them upset. I started hearing the comments lately “I hope you won’t put me in your blog” :-), not only from them but as well from the most of my friends and acquaintance. In this way I’ll save their privacy. 😉
We were talking about relationships between man and woman.
Both of them are happily married and they have very nice personalities. The conversation started very spontaneously and with my silly question :-):
“What your wife does or not does that you really don’t like but you don’t want to tell her?” Both of them started to laugh. As shocked as I was by their reaction – I didn’t expect any response from them.
Nevertheless they stopped laughing and each of them told me one thing that he really doesn’t like in his wife’s behavior.
1. Don’t turn off the lights when you make love!
This is a Big NO! And on this one I started laughing, because it is true :-). Do you agree with me? How many of you does this? A lot of women are insecure about their bodies and they feel much better in the dark. In the bed my Dears you should forget about all the possible drawback which you are ashamed of. Men are visual creatures and you are for him the most desirable women. Therefore my Dears, please work on your self-confidence if you want to keep your man next to you. Both of them told me that the most sexiest thing on woman is her self-confidence. Self-confidence radiates from every woman and makes her more attractive and fetching. Be aware of yourself, of your body and your beauty!
2. Take out from the drower your sexy underwear that he gave you!
Yes – they complained about that too – telling me: “Do you know what usually happends with this gift? Remain in oblivion in one of the drawers of our bedroom and she never wore it!” I can tell you my Dears, they were pretty upset about it. And I think that they have right – As I mentioned above, men are visual creatures, they love to see their woman in nice and sexy underwear, well groomed and to take care of herself. Wear that new underawer just for his eyes – they also love to feel special – show him how pretty you are in that – show him how much you love him and thank him for his effort of choosing and buying a wonderful gift for you.
Fist of all – you should feel special because he surprises you and then – you should give him back surprise by wearing that wonderful gift – take the initiative 🙂 and wait for him! Show him your happiness!
Friends of mine might won’t be happy when they’ll read this article but I just couldn’t stay in silence 🙂 – I wanted to share this informations with you. I hope that you’ll get a message out of this confession and that you’ll try to use in practise some of the advices.